I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this
07.06.2025 14:24
Im sorry for your hurt. He's deceptiveness, emotionally cheating and denial is a huge red sign. HE is the one with the problem, it's Not You. You should seek counseling before you lose all your self esteem, self worth and dignity. He gave himself away when he got mad when you asked him. He was guilty. And the pics/ pop ups only show up when you go into a site like that. Then more pop up I'm sure..of course your feelings have changed, he cheated on you. You need to decide what YOU want to do for your own sake. Once people get into porn it's very hard to get away from it with some kind of help. If give him the ultimatum. You either come clean with me, admit what you have been and are doing and get counseling or I'm done. I'm not going to live with a liar and a cheater. Be sure you mean it or else he will walk all over you from there on.